in general, my rule has always been to never let the children sleep with me. all the parenting books tell you not to, that it will create codependency and bad habits. however, lately, this rule has not been kept. the main reason is that i'm afraid that one day i will regret saying no all the time. i can't pass on moments like these, to be able to snuggle with my cute little cherubs from time to time is like heaven one earth. for now, it's sweet dreams for mama and lucy.